10 tips to soulmate search

  1. Clear out your emotional closet.  Let go of the emotions from past relationships that still linger in your life.  If you feel emotion such as hurt, anger, resentment, rage, or disgust, then you aren’t fully free to love someone else.  Although you say you are finished with that relationship, you clearly aren’t.
  2. Clean up your internal dialog.  Internal dialog consists of the things you say to yourself in the conversations you have in your head.  Get rid of negative thoughts about yourself.  No one is perfect.  Your imperfections actually give you character and are part of your charm.
  3. Continue your own personal growth.  Take classes and seminars that will move you closer to the best YOU!  You only know what you know until you learn more.  Conversely, you don’t know what you don’t know.  So keep at it.  Learning keeps you young and gives you tools to live life more productively.
  4. Stop caring about what other people think about you.  If you are always concerned that someone is judging you, it’s very hard to be your authentic self.  People who get into soul mate relationships like and approve of themselves. They are willing to embrace who they are in the world.
  5. Be positive about your life.  Life isn’t always neat and tidy.  An interesting life can sometimes be a bit messy.  Each new experience brings us new knowledge that shows how resilient we actually are.  Resilience is a key component to having a successful relationship.
  6. Stop judging other people.  Have you ever drawn a conclusion about someone because of the way they dress, the car they drive, or where they live?  Our judgment of others often keeps us from having relationships with really kind and interesting people.  Be open to learning about someone before you label them.
  7. Be willing to both give and receive in life.  If you are not willing to receive, you are a taker.  You are denying someone the opportunity to give to you and feel good about it.  This is very selfish, and is taking away from a reciprocal relationship.
  8. Treat yourself well.  If you want to be in a relationship with someone who treats you well, you have to be willing to do that for yourself first.  Be willing to invest in yourself and your well-being.
  9. Be willing to talk to strangers you may encounter in your day-to-day outings and activities.  More single people meet their soul mate through chance encounters than any other way of connecting, including singles groups, internet dating, and singles events.
  10. Take some action today.  Days can slip away into weeks, months and years.  What are you willing to do TODAY that will move you closer to having your soul mate relationship?


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