Pizzas back in Sex life: 5 ways
Children (esp. newborns), Work, and School. These things are the usual reason why you and your honey are not have sex. You figure our sex life is on the fritz, and fear that the relationship is over. Don't worry, these 5 ways are guaranteed to bring back the life to the old sex section.
1. Lingerie
Ladies, spice it up! If you have a man that loves a woman in ligerie, then give him what he wants. Find out what color he likes you in, then head to the store (any store with lingerie) and buy it. And for those who find it a hassle to shop for lingerie, a cute bra and panty matching set works just the same. Grab some heels, tease the hair, practice a seductive dance and PRESTO! you got sexy.
2. Sexy Phone Calls
If you are an at home mom and he is a work all day dad, then sexy phone calls are sure to work. They are a great way to spice things up without even changing clothes. One afternoon, put your children to sleep for a nap, and call in to his office. Put some seduction in your voice, even if you are cleaning the kitchen....he does not know that.... Create a sexy conversation, or better yet tell hom about the things you want to do to him. Surely he is at work and responses are short, but once he gets home. He will be eager to eat and put the children to bed. You know what happens next...
3. Play Dates
Yes, play dates are not only for children. Go on a date with the man you love. Plan to meet at a restuarant, and pretend to be meeting aa a first time. Act as if you never knew this man, who would know you do. Surely not the dining customers. Create a conversation that is interesting, and please do not use "So how bout this weather?"
4. Roleplay
This goes hand in hand with option #3 Play Dates. Use your alter ego, make a new person. If he ask you your name, give him a new different name. He will be shocked but curious and will play along. Tell him a scenario, act out a fantasy of your or his....use the old maid and master, patient and nurse, or delivery man and house wife. Either of these are sure to please.
5. Weekend Getaways
Like most couples/parents the last 4 options are impossible, I should know right? Wrong! Plan to have a baby sitter (grandparents are the best) and do a getaway. From Friday to Sunday, stay at a hotel, dine out, and enjoy each other. Then you can experience #1-4 on your getaway. Can't afford the hotel getaway, perfect because your home is another place you can getaway from. Pretend you have no chilren, grab roses, chanpagne or liquor (your preference), and candles. Or some food, and BAM! you have your weekend getaway. Best part you can camp in the lving room, dim the lights, and heck do it on the couch.
If these 5 things didn't get your sex drive pumping, then maybe you hsould consider other people. No just kidding. Try a movie and see where that leads. You never know until you try it.
1. Lingerie
Ladies, spice it up! If you have a man that loves a woman in ligerie, then give him what he wants. Find out what color he likes you in, then head to the store (any store with lingerie) and buy it. And for those who find it a hassle to shop for lingerie, a cute bra and panty matching set works just the same. Grab some heels, tease the hair, practice a seductive dance and PRESTO! you got sexy.
2. Sexy Phone Calls
If you are an at home mom and he is a work all day dad, then sexy phone calls are sure to work. They are a great way to spice things up without even changing clothes. One afternoon, put your children to sleep for a nap, and call in to his office. Put some seduction in your voice, even if you are cleaning the kitchen....he does not know that.... Create a sexy conversation, or better yet tell hom about the things you want to do to him. Surely he is at work and responses are short, but once he gets home. He will be eager to eat and put the children to bed. You know what happens next...
3. Play Dates
Yes, play dates are not only for children. Go on a date with the man you love. Plan to meet at a restuarant, and pretend to be meeting aa a first time. Act as if you never knew this man, who would know you do. Surely not the dining customers. Create a conversation that is interesting, and please do not use "So how bout this weather?"
4. Roleplay
This goes hand in hand with option #3 Play Dates. Use your alter ego, make a new person. If he ask you your name, give him a new different name. He will be shocked but curious and will play along. Tell him a scenario, act out a fantasy of your or his....use the old maid and master, patient and nurse, or delivery man and house wife. Either of these are sure to please.
5. Weekend Getaways
Like most couples/parents the last 4 options are impossible, I should know right? Wrong! Plan to have a baby sitter (grandparents are the best) and do a getaway. From Friday to Sunday, stay at a hotel, dine out, and enjoy each other. Then you can experience #1-4 on your getaway. Can't afford the hotel getaway, perfect because your home is another place you can getaway from. Pretend you have no chilren, grab roses, chanpagne or liquor (your preference), and candles. Or some food, and BAM! you have your weekend getaway. Best part you can camp in the lving room, dim the lights, and heck do it on the couch.
If these 5 things didn't get your sex drive pumping, then maybe you hsould consider other people. No just kidding. Try a movie and see where that leads. You never know until you try it.
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